girls who like boys who like girls who like boys.....
The wedding this weekend did actually get me thinking about something super cereal (South Park reference) - girls who hate girls.
I know someone (who was in attendance at the wedding) who has mentioned/announced her dislike for females (yep, no particular kind, just the gender in general) and on top of that, is fairly rude and mean to females around her. This was the case during the wedding weekend.
My opinion of this "I hate girls even though I am one myself" syndrome is: STUPID AND IMMATURE.
Sure, I went through the phase of hating girls and only having guy friends and making it known that I only befriend guys but then realized (before I was even out of my teens) that I was doing it for attention from guys, thinking that guys would think I'm one of them or that I'm "different" and "so chill." It's a generalization that I realized was just completely stupid. Maybe I hadn't met the right girls at that point or just wanted to be EXTRA friendly to boys and this was the cover up for my flirtation. Either way, it seems that this syndrome is still present. There are still girls who feel this way and make their feelings known. But, what really gets me is when they are just rude. Be a nice person or else you're going to make me hate girls too. Or not girls in general (b/c I grew up) but just girls like you!!!
I can say that I disliked the girls I've met at _____ or the girls I lived with when I _____ or anything like that. Or I can say that I hate ditzy girls or girly girls or competative girls, etc etc. But to say you just dont like girls seems rather like a rather uninformed opinion. Have you met all the girls on Earth? If so, and if you still feel that way after you're trip around the world, then power to ya and I will stay out of your way and lobby for you to be able to use men's rooms in public facilities. Otherwise, put a smile on your face and stop hanging on every guy like a sad desperate person.
That is that.
I know someone (who was in attendance at the wedding) who has mentioned/announced her dislike for females (yep, no particular kind, just the gender in general) and on top of that, is fairly rude and mean to females around her. This was the case during the wedding weekend.
My opinion of this "I hate girls even though I am one myself" syndrome is: STUPID AND IMMATURE.
Sure, I went through the phase of hating girls and only having guy friends and making it known that I only befriend guys but then realized (before I was even out of my teens) that I was doing it for attention from guys, thinking that guys would think I'm one of them or that I'm "different" and "so chill." It's a generalization that I realized was just completely stupid. Maybe I hadn't met the right girls at that point or just wanted to be EXTRA friendly to boys and this was the cover up for my flirtation. Either way, it seems that this syndrome is still present. There are still girls who feel this way and make their feelings known. But, what really gets me is when they are just rude. Be a nice person or else you're going to make me hate girls too. Or not girls in general (b/c I grew up) but just girls like you!!!
I can say that I disliked the girls I've met at _____ or the girls I lived with when I _____ or anything like that. Or I can say that I hate ditzy girls or girly girls or competative girls, etc etc. But to say you just dont like girls seems rather like a rather uninformed opinion. Have you met all the girls on Earth? If so, and if you still feel that way after you're trip around the world, then power to ya and I will stay out of your way and lobby for you to be able to use men's rooms in public facilities. Otherwise, put a smile on your face and stop hanging on every guy like a sad desperate person.
That is that.
posted by lil giggle-byte at 3:03 PM
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